Basically I haven't enjoyed (internal)intercourse since my first child was born almost 3 years ago. At the beginning its normal I know because of hormones, stitches, exhaustion, dryness, etc. But I now have a second child who is four months old. And I just don't want anything to do with sex really. I do it sometimes because it is really hard for my dh and it takes a toll on our relationship. But even before this last pregnancy it was rarely enjoyable for me. And it is usually uncomfortable at best and painful not at best. Again I know some of this is normal since I am breastfeeding, and getting less sleep etc. But I don't want to continue like this. I have tried commerical lube as well as almond oil. Condoms are our current bc method, which makes it worse. We usually use natural family planning but since I don't have a period right now I don't temp. Any help would greatly be appreciated.